A parish of the Roman Catholic Diocese of Tulsa and Eastern Oklahoma
Why seek healing?
Abortion can be one of the most traumatic experiences in a person’s life. Feelings of sadness, anxiety, guilt and grief are common, not only for the woman, but for the man involved, for relatives, friends and others.
Catholic Charities recognizes that part of the pain comes from a denied opportunity to grieve the life that was lost. We seek to help individuals make peace with themselves, their children and with God. Guided by a spirit of compassion, we are here to serve as companions on the hope-filled journey of healing.
Rachel’s Vineyard Tulsa offers Catholic, Spanish and Interdenominational weekend retreats to help women and men resolve issues of guilt, shame, pain, grief, and anxiety after an abortion. The retreats are open to people of all faiths and anyone impacted by abortion (moms, dads, grandparents, siblings, abortion workers, etc.).
Why attend a Rachel's Vineyard Retreat?
Rachel’s Vineyard weekend retreats provide an opportunity for any person who has struggled with the emotional or spiritual pain of an abortion. This weekend is designed to help bring support, healing and hope and includes discussion, the sacrament of reconciliation, a memorial service and a Mass of resurrection.
Participation is strictly confidential and offers a beautiful opportunity to experience God’s love, forgiveness and compassion. A priest, licensed therapist and supportive team facilitate the retreat.
What is the cost of a retreat?
The cost is $125 and scholarships are available. The fee for the weekend includes overnight lodging on Friday and Saturday, one meal on Friday, three on Saturday, two on Sunday, and snacks on Friday and Saturday.
How do I register for a retreat?
Because space is limited, advance registration is required. Payment in full is requested at the time of registration. If full payment cannot be made, a non-refundable deposit of at least $50 is needed to reserve your place for the weekend. Financial assistance is available - contact us to discuss. After filling out the registration form (see link on this web page), please make your check payable to Catholic Charities and mail to:
Mary Lee Weaver, LCSW
Catholic Charities, RV Retreat
PO Box 580460
Tulsa, OK 74158-0460
After your registration and payment is received, you will receive a confirmation letter. Closer to the retreat weekend, you will receive additional information about the retreat, including a list of what items to bring and directions to the retreat location. Please keep the location of the retreat confidential except with family and others who will be supportive.
It is important that you make a commitment to stay at the retreat for the entire weekend. Missing any part of the retreat will interfere with getting the closure you need. Consider this weekend as a gift you are giving to yourself.
When is the next retreat?
October 29-31, 2021 (en Espanol)
November 19-21, 2021 (English Retreat)
December 3-5, 2021 (English Retreat)
- Retreats take place from 5 pm on Friday through 3 pm on Sunday.
For more information about this retreat for women and men, go to cceok.org/healing-after-abortion or call or text (918) 978-4673. All inquiries are confidential.
For a complete listing of retreat dates and locations nationwide call 1-877-HOPE-4-ME or go to rachelsvineyard.org